The importance of studying human behaviour and dynamics
The study of human behavior and human dynamics are absolutely essential for anyone to cultivate positive relations with others and avoid unnecessary conflict. The study of human behavior and dynamics needs to be part of any educational curriculum program. The study of human behavior helps one to understand that it’s part of our human nature to make mistakes, that good intentions lead to mishaps and that stuff happens. We’ve got to be cognizant of this knowledge in order to get on with life. And if we are to value positive social relations and getting along with others, then we need to consider the consequences of our actions and behaviors in relation to judging others.
Everyone should be equipped with the necessary inter-personal and communicative skills to function effectively and succeed in a dynamically changing post-modern multi-racial society. Post-modernism, immigration from non-traditional countries and technological innovation has changed the landscape and dynamics of human relations and the way we live and conduct our lives. Educational institutions have an obligation to not only prepare students for the workplace but to help them cope with and function with ease and comfort in a dynamically changing society. Having a grasp of human dynamics and self-awareness can help one cope with one’s emotions and positively deal with others. One learns that to err is human and that we are imperfect.
Another consideration is that we are currently living in a multi-cultural society which includes diverse ways of self-expressions and lifestyles which demands that one become aware of and cognizant of the myriad ways of living and how to be and maintain good relations with others. We all stand to benefit when we are self-aware and cognizant of differences. Getting along with others is essential to succeeding in life. If we are too quick to judge others and do so without awareness, we run the risk of creating ill-will and generating personal conflict and hindering positive social relations.
When we image ourselves in someone else’s shoes, we can glean insight into their situation in life and appreciate their motivation and behavior. Having such knowledge can help one find a way to deal with others and avoid unnecessary conflict. Also, if one chooses to judge someone, one can do it in an appropriate way that focuses on the behavior of the other person while at the same time affirming the individual. By respecting the precept, “You can judge no one until you judge yourself,” one can avoid unnecessary conflict which may cause ill-will. Also, harmonious relations are a hallmark of a healthy society. We all have a responsibility to create a healthy society. The above precept teaches us to think before jumping in and judging others. It also helps us to develop an open mind. An open mind helps one to cope and live with others respectfully.
We should all study human behavior to maintain positive social relations with others and in order to contribute to a harmonious society. Social skills shouldn’t be left to chance. Institutions should not only prepare students for the workplace but to live and succeed in a dynamically changing society. Social skills need to be taught!
